Character Journal No.32

Determination

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Bible Verses Related to Determination

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NOTE: The black colored text indicates the number attributed to the Greek or Hebrew word in Strong's Concordance as well as a transliteration of the word and its pronunciation. The blue text shows all of the ways that the original word is translated in the Authorised Version. The number beside each of the various words indicates the number of times it is translated in that way; and the number at the end indicates the total number of times the original word appears in the Bible. The red text gives a more technical definition of the original word. In each case, the first time the original word is used is listed first. For the sake of space, not all occurrences of the original word is given but enough to show the various ways in which the word is used.


03335 ruy yatsar yaw-tsar’
probably identical with 03334 (through the squeezing into shape), ([compare 03331]); TWOT-898; v
AV-form 26, potter 17, fashion 5, maker 4, frame 3, make 3, former 2, earthen 1, purposed 1; 62
1) to form, fashion, frame
1a) (Qal) to form, fashion
1a1) of human activity
1a2) of divine activity
1a2a) of creation
1a2a1) of original creation
1a2a2) of individuals at conception
1a2a3) of Israel as a people
1a2b) to frame, pre-ordain, plan (fig. of divine) purpose of a situation)
1b) (Niphal) to be formed, be created
1c) (Pual) to be predetermined, be pre-ordained
1d) (Hophal) to be formed

Genesis 2:7 And the LORD God formed <03335> man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul. {of the dust…: Heb. dust of the ground}

2 Kings 19:25 Hast thou not heard long ago how I have done it, and of ancient times that I have formed <03335> it? now have I brought it to pass, that thou shouldest be to lay waste fenced cities into ruinous heaps. {long…: or, how I have made it long ago, and formed it of ancient times? should I now bring it to be laid waste, and fenced cities to be ruinous heaps?}

1 Chronicles 4:23 These were the potters <03335>, and those that dwelt among plants and hedges: there they dwelt with the king for his work.

Psalms 2:9 Thou shalt break them with a rod of iron; thou shalt dash them in pieces like a potter’s <03335> vessel.

Psalms 33:15 He fashioneth <03335> their hearts alike; he considereth all their works.

Psalms 139:16 Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned <03335>, when as yet there was none of them. {all…: Heb. all of them} {which…: or, what days they should be fashioned}

Isaiah 41:25 I have raised up one from the north, and he shall come: from the rising of the sun shall he call upon my name: and he shall come upon princes as upon morter, and as the potter <03335> treadeth clay.

Isaiah 43:1 But now thus saith the LORD that created thee, O Jacob, and he that formed <03335> thee, O Israel, Fear not: for I have redeemed thee, I have called thee by thy name; thou art mine.

Isaiah 43:21 This people have I formed <03335> for myself; they shall shew forth my praise.

Isaiah 44:2 Thus saith the LORD that made thee, and formed <03335> thee from the womb, which will help thee; Fear not, O Jacob, my servant; and thou, Jesurun, whom I have chosen.

Isaiah 44:10 Who hath formed <03335> a god, or molten a graven image that is profitable for nothing?

Isaiah 44:12 The smith with the tongs both worketh in the coals, and fashioneth <03335> it with hammers, and worketh it with the strength of his arms: yea, he is hungry, and his strength faileth: he drinketh no water, and is faint. {with the tongs: or, with an axe}

Isaiah 44:21 Remember these, O Jacob and Israel; for thou art my servant: I have formed <03335> thee; thou art my servant: O Israel, thou shalt not be forgotten of me.

Isaiah 45:9 Woe unto him that striveth with his Maker <03335>! Let the potsherd strive with the potsherds of the earth. Shall the clay say to him that fashioneth <03335> it, What makest thou? or thy work, He hath no hands?

Isaiah 46:11 Calling a ravenous bird from the east, the man that executeth my counsel from a far country: yea, I have spoken it, I will also bring it to pass; I have purposed <03335> it, I will also do it. {that…: Heb. of my counsel}

Isaiah 54:17 No weapon that is formed <03335> against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment thou shalt condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and their righteousness is of me, saith the LORD.

Jeremiah 1:5 Before I formed <03335> thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. {ordained: Heb. gave}

Jeremiah 19:1 Thus saith the LORD, Go and get a potter’s <03335> earthen bottle, and take of the ancients of the people, and of the ancients of the priests;

Amos 4:13 For, lo, he that formeth <03335> the mountains, and createth the wind, and declareth unto man what is his thought, that maketh the morning darkness, and treadeth upon the high places of the earth, The LORD, The God of hosts, is his name. {wind: or, spirit}

Amos 7:1 Thus hath the Lord GOD shewed unto me; and, behold, he formed <03335> grasshoppers in the beginning of the shooting up of the latter growth; and, lo, it was the latter growth after the king’s mowings. {grasshoppers: or, green worms}

Habakkuk 2:18 What profiteth the graven image that the maker <03335> thereof hath graven it; the molten image, and a teacher of lies, that the maker <03335> of his work trusteth therein, to make dumb idols? {maker of…: Heb. fashioner of his fashion}

Zechariah 11:13 And the LORD said unto me, Cast it unto the potter <03335>: a goodly price that I was prised at of them. And I took the thirty pieces of silver, and cast them to the potter <03335> in the house of the LORD.

Zechariah 12:1 The burden of the word of the LORD for Israel, saith the LORD, which stretcheth forth the heavens, and layeth the foundation of the earth, and formeth <03335> the spirit of man within him.


 

0559 rma ‘amar aw-mar’
a primitive root; TWOT-118; v
AV-said 4874, speak 179, answer 99, command 30, tell 29, call 7, promised 6, misc. 84; 5308
1) to say, speak, utter
1a) (Qal) to say, to answer, to say in one’s heart, to think, to command, to promise, to intend
1b) (Niphal) to be told, to be said, to be called
1c) (Hithpael) to boast, to act proudly
1d) (Hiphil) to avow, to avouch

Genesis 1:3 And God said <0559>, Let there be light: and there was light.

Genesis 1:6 And God said <0559>, Let there be a firmament in the midst of the waters, and let it divide the waters from the waters. {firmament: Heb. expansion}

Genesis 1:9 And God said <0559>, Let the waters under the heaven be gathered together unto one place, and let the dry land appear: and it was so.

Genesis 1:11 And God said <0559>, Let the earth bring forth grass, the herb yielding seed, and the fruit tree yielding fruit after his kind, whose seed is in itself, upon the earth: and it was so. {grass: Heb. tender grass}

Genesis 1:14 And God said <0559>, Let there be lights in the firmament of the heaven to divide the day from the night; and let them be for signs, and for seasons, and for days, and years: {the day…: Heb. between the day and between the night}

Genesis 1:20 And God said <0559>, Let the waters bring forth abundantly the moving creature that hath life, and fowl that may fly above the earth in the open firmament of heaven. {moving: or, creeping} {life: Heb. soul} {fowl…: Heb. let fowl fly} {open…: Heb. face of the firmament of heaven}

2 Chronicles 2:1 And Solomon determined <0559> to build an house for the name of the LORD, and an house for his kingdom.


 

02161 Mmz zamam zaw-mam’
a primitive root; TWOT-556; v
AV-thought 5, devise 3, consider 1, purpose 1, imagine 1, plot 1; 13
1) to have a thought, devise, plan, consider, purpose
1a) (Qal)
1a1) to consider, fix thought upon
1a2) to purpose, devise
1a3) to plot (of evil intent)

Genesis 11:6 And the LORD said, Behold, the people is one, and they have all one language; and this they begin to do: and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined <02161> to do.

Deuteronomy 19:19 Then shall ye do unto him, as he had thought <02161> to have done unto his brother: so shalt thou put the evil away from among you.

Psalms 17:3 Thou hast proved mine heart; thou hast visited me in the night; thou hast tried me, and shalt find nothing; I am purposed <02161> that my mouth shall not transgress.

Psalms 31:13 For I have heard the slander of many: fear was on every side: while they took counsel together against me, they devised <02161> to take away my life.

Psalms 37:12 The wicked plotteth <02161> against the just, and gnasheth upon him with his teeth. {plotteth: or, practiseth}

Proverbs 30:32 If thou hast done foolishly in lifting up thyself, or if thou hast thought evil <02161>, lay thine hand upon thy mouth.

Proverbs 31:16 She considereth <02161> a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. {buyeth: Heb. taketh}

Jeremiah 4:28 For this shall the earth mourn, and the heavens above be black: because I have spoken it, I have purposed <02161> it, and will not repent, neither will I turn back from it.

Jeremiah 51:12 Set up the standard upon the walls of Babylon, make the watch strong, set up the watchmen, prepare the ambushes: for the LORD hath both devised <02161> and done that which he spake against the inhabitants of Babylon. {ambushes: Heb. liers in wait}

Lamentations 2:17 The LORD hath done that which he had devised <02161>; he hath fulfilled his word that he had commanded in the days of old: he hath thrown down, and hath not pitied: and he hath caused thine enemy to rejoice over thee, he hath set up the horn of thine adversaries.

Zechariah 1:6 But my words and my statutes, which I commanded my servants the prophets, did they not take hold of your fathers? and they returned and said, Like as the LORD of hosts thought <02161> to do unto us, according to our ways, and according to our doings, so hath he dealt with us. {take…: or, overtake}

Zechariah 8:14 For thus saith the LORD of hosts; As I thought <02161> to punish you, when your fathers provoked me to wrath, saith the LORD of hosts, and I repented not:

Zechariah 8:15 So again have I thought <02161> in these days to do well unto Jerusalem and to the house of Judah: fear ye not.


 

07760 Mws suwm soom or Mys siym seem
a primitive root; TWOT-2243; v
AV-put 155, make 123, set 119, lay 64, appoint 19, give 11, set up 10, consider 8, turn 5, brought 4, ordain 3, place 3, take 3, shew 2, regard 2, mark 2, disposed 2, care 2, misc 48; 585
1) to put, place, set, appoint, make
1a) (Qal)
1a1) to put, set, lay, put or lay upon, lay (violent) hands on
1a2) to set, direct, direct toward
1a2a) to extend (compassion) (fig)
1a3) to set, ordain, establish, found, appoint, constitute, make, determine, fix
1a4) to set, station, put, set in place, plant, fix
1a5) to make, make for, transform into, constitute, fashion, work, bring to pass, appoint, give
1b) (Hiphil) to set or make for a sign
1c) (Hophal) to be set

Genesis 2:8 And the LORD God planted a garden eastward in Eden; and there he put <07760> the man whom he had formed.

Genesis 4:15 And the LORD said unto him, Therefore whosoever slayeth Cain, vengeance shall be taken on him sevenfold. And the LORD set <07760> a mark upon Cain, lest any finding him should kill him.

Genesis 6:16 A window shalt thou make to the ark, and in a cubit shalt thou finish it above; and the door of the ark shalt thou set <07760> in the side thereof; with lower, second, and third stories shalt thou make it.

Daniel 1:8 But Daniel purposed <07760> in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king’s meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself.


 
2919 krinw krino kree’-no
perhaps a primitive word; TDNT-3:921,469; v
AV-judge 88, determine 7, condemn 5, go to law 2, call in question 2, esteem 2, misc 8; 114
1) to separate, put asunder, to pick out, select, choose
2) to approve, esteem, to prefer
3) to be of opinion, deem, think, to be of opinion
4) to determine, resolve, decree
5) to judge
5a) to pronounce an opinion concerning right and wrong
5a1) to be judged, i.e. summoned to trial that one’s case may be examined and judgment passed upon it
5b) to pronounce judgment, to subject to censure
5b1) of those who act the part of judges or arbiters in matters of common life, or pass judgment on the deeds and words of others
6) to rule, govern
6a) to preside over with the power of giving judicial decisions, because it was the prerogative of kings and rulers to pass judgment
7) to contend together, of warriors and combatants
7a) to dispute
7b) in a forensic sense
7b1) to go to law, have suit at law

Matthew 5:40 And if any man will sue <2919> thee at the law <2919>, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloke also.

Matthew 7:1 Judge <2919> not, that ye be <2919> not judged <2919>.

Matthew 7:2 For with what judgment ye judge <2919>, ye shall be judged <2919>: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

Matthew 19:28 And Jesus said unto them, Verily I say unto you, That ye which have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of man shall sit in the throne of his glory, ye also shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging <2919> the twelve tribes of Israel.

Luke 6:37 Judge <2919> not, and ye shall <2919> not be judged <2919>: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:

Luke 7:43 Simon answered and said, I suppose that he, to whom he forgave most. And he said unto him, Thou hast <2919> rightly judged <2919>.

Acts 3:13 The God of Abraham, and of Isaac, and of Jacob, the God of our fathers, hath glorified his Son Jesus; whom ye delivered up, and denied him in the presence of Pilate, when he was determined <2919> to let him go.

Acts 20:16 For Paul had determined <2919> to sail by Ephesus, because he would not spend the time in Asia: for he hasted, if it were possible for him, to be at Jerusalem the day of Pentecost.


 
3724 orizw horizo hor-id’-zo
from 3725; TDNT-5:452,728; v
AV-determine 2, ordain 2, as it was determined + 2596 + 3588 1, declare 1, limit 1, determine 1; 8
1) to define
1a) to mark out the boundaries or limits (of any place or thing) 1b to determine, appoint
1b1) that which has been determined, acc. to appointment, decree
1b2) to ordain, determine, appoint

Luke 22:22 And truly the Son of man goeth, as it was determined <3724>: but woe unto that man by whom he is betrayed!

Acts 2:23 Him, being delivered by the determinate <3724> counsel and foreknowledge of God, ye have taken, and by wicked hands have crucified and slain:

Acts 10:42 And he commanded us to preach unto the people, and to testify that it is he which was ordained <3724> of God to be the Judge of quick and dead.

Acts 11:29 Then the disciples, every man according to his ability, determined <3724> to send relief unto the brethren which dwelt in Judaea:

Acts 17:26 And hath made of one blood all nations of men for to dwell on all the face of the earth, and hath determined <3724> the times before appointed, and the bounds of their habitation;

Acts 17:31 Because he hath appointed a day, in the which he will judge the world in righteousness by that man whom he hath ordained <3724>; whereof he hath given assurance unto all men, in that he hath raised him from the dead. {hath given…: or, offered faith}

Romans 1:4 And declared <3724> to be the Son of God with power, according to the spirit of holiness, by the resurrection from the dead: {declared: Gr. determined}

Hebrews 4:7 Again, he limiteth <3724> a certain day, saying in David, To day, after so long a time; as it is said, To day if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts.


 
5021 tassw tasso tas’-so
a prolonged form of a primary verb (which latter appears only in certain tenses); TDNT-8:27,1156; v
AV-appoint 3, ordain 2, set 1, determine 1, addict 1; 8
1) to put in order, to station
1a) to place in a certain order, to arrange, to assign a place, to appoint
1a1) to assign (appoint) a thing to one
1b) to appoint, ordain, order
1b1) to appoint on one’s own responsibility or authority
1b2) to appoint mutually, i.e. agree upon
For Synonyms see entry 5844

Matthew 28:16 Then the eleven disciples went away into Galilee, into a mountain where Jesus had appointed <5021> them.

Luke 7:8 For I also am a man set <5021> under authority, having under me soldiers, and I say unto one, Go, and he goeth; and to another, Come, and he cometh; and to my servant, Do this, and he doeth it. {one: Gr. this man}

Acts 13:48 And when the Gentiles heard this, they were glad, and glorified the word of the Lord: and as many as were ordained <5021> to eternal life believed.

Acts 15:2 When therefore Paul and Barnabas had no small dissension and disputation with them, they determined <5021> that Paul and Barnabas, and certain other of them, should go up to Jerusalem unto the apostles and elders about this question.

Acts 22:10 And I said, What shall I do, Lord? And the Lord said unto me, Arise, and go into Damascus; and there it shall be told thee of all things which are appointed <5021> for thee to do.

Acts 28:23 And when they had appointed <5021> him a day, there came many to him into his lodging; to whom he expounded and testified the kingdom of God, persuading them concerning Jesus, both out of the law of Moses, and out of the prophets, from morning till evening.

Romans 13:1 Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained <5021> of God. {ordained: or, ordered}

1 Corinthians 16:15 I beseech you, brethren, (ye know the house of Stephanas, that it is the firstfruits of Achaia, and that they have addicted <5021> themselves to the ministry of the saints,)


 
1011 bouleuw bouleuo bool-yoo’-o
from 1012; ; v
AV-consult 2, be minded 2, purpose 2, determine 1, take counsel 1; 8
1) to deliberate with one’s self, consider
2) to take counsel, resolve

Luke 14:31 Or what king, going to make war against another king, sitteth not down first, and consulteth <1011> whether he be able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand?

John 12:10 But the chief priests consulted <1011> that they might put Lazarus also to death;

Acts 5:33 When they heard that, they were cut to the heart, and took counsel <1011> to slay them.

Acts 15:37 And Barnabas determined <1011> to take with them John, whose surname was Mark.

Acts 27:39 And when it was day, they knew not the land: but they discovered a certain creek with a shore, into the which they were minded <1011>, if it were possible, to thrust in the ship.

2 Corinthians 1:17 When I <1011> therefore was <1011> thus minded <1011>, did I use lightness? or the things that I purpose <1011>, do I purpose <1011> according to the flesh, that with me there should be yea yea, and nay nay?


 

Bible Stories


 

Character Definitions


 

How to Demonstrate Determination

at Home

at Work/School

at Church


 

The "I Wills" of Determination

-Character First! Education Series 4


 

Overcome Discouragement By Recognising The Benefits of Adversity

There are many benefits of adversity and trials. Often when we begin to experience pressure or problems — especially in our marriage — our natural reaction is "How can I get out of this?" We look for an easy way out and completely miss the spiritual lessons and benefits God wants us to learn. Our first response to adversity should not be to try and remove it, but to ask the Lord to show us His purpose in allowing it. Adversity can do one of two things: If we respond to it correctly, it can be one of the greatest motivations for spiritual growth; if  we respond to it with humanistic reasoning and try to get out from under it, it can be one of the deadliest means of discouragement. 

There are many benefits that God wants us to learn through suffering, but we will only experience them as we go through suffering and as we respond to it correctly.

1. Suffering is God's way of getting our attention

Although I came to know the Lord Jesus Christ as my Saviour when I was just a child, my teenage years were years of rebellion. During this time, the people I respected the most and looked up to were successful businessmen. Because I had believed Satan's lies, I made one serious mistake after another. Shortly after leaving school I started my own little business. I had all kinds of plans and goals for my life but none of them included the Lord. I was a Christian but I was living for nobody but myself.

Then on 7th March, 1979, I was driving along a little windy twisty road in county Down, Northern Ireland; and the next thing I remember is waking up in a hospital operating theatre. I later learned that I had been involved in a head-on collision with a truck. When they found me, my heart had already stopped beating, and it took them almost an hour to cut me out of the car. I had a fractured skull, broken leg and ribs. A week later I had a blood clot in my lung, and the doctors told my parents that they didn't think I was going to survive one particular night.

As I lay in that hospital bed for almost a month, God brought a verse to my mind: Matthew 25:21  "His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant." I realised that I had come within an inch of eternity twice within a period of  a week. If I had died, I would have gone to be with the Lord because I had accepted Jesus Christ as my personal Saviour; but I also knew with equal certainty that those were words that Jesus Christ could never have said to me - because I had done absolutely nothing for Him.

As a result of that accident, I lost my business; and at the time, I thought it was the worst possible thing that could ever have happened to me. But now, as I look back on it, I say, "Thank God for it!" - because God used that car accident to get my attention. He used that car accident to cause me to take my eyes of the temporal things of this world and to focus them upon eternal, spiritual realities. This was a major turning point in my Christian life.

Many of us are too busy with our own plans and goals that we have little or no time for God's. But when trials come, we are suddenly faced with problems and pressures too big for us to handle. God uses suffering as a motivation to take our eyes off temporal things so that we can clearly see eternal realities.

2. Suffering is a signal to re-evaluate our priorities

Having the wrong priorities will have devastating consequences, not only upon our lives, but also upon the lives of those we love the most. The rebellion of an eldest son of a pastor that I know, caused him to re-evaluate his priorities and spend more time with his younger children.

If we are experiencing adversity, it may be that the Lord is directing us to re-evaluate our priorities.

3. Suffering is God's way of demonstrating the sufficiency of Christ

A KGB agent put a gun to the head of a Romanian pastor and told him to renounce Christ or he would be shot. The pastor told him that he would never deny his Saviour and that death only meant that he would be ushered into the presence of Christ. The KGB agent pulled the trigger, but nothing happened. The agent had used an empty gun because he wanted to see the reality of this man's faith. When he saw that the pastor's faith was genuine, he asked how he too could become a Christian.

If we follow our own human reasoning and try to get out from under the pressure of adversity and trials, the world will never understand that Jesus Christ is sufficient for any situation. When Christians divorce and churches split because of our selfishness and pride, we damage God's name and reputation.

Recognising the spiritual benefits of adversity can help us to see God's purposes more clearly.


 

Personal Evaluation

·        Do you determine to follow Christ, no matter what the cost?

·        Do you have Biblical commitments that will direct your decisions in life?

·        Do you commit to reach a goal and overcome any obstacles you encounter along the way?

·        Do you have a motivating purpose in life?

·        Do you persevere on tasks that are more difficult than what you expected?

·        Do you allow problems or failures to keep you from trying again?

The Power for True Success


 

The Truth that Set Me Free from Gluttony
by Ken Pierpont

Obesity and the failure to exercise discipline in my eating have burdened my life for years. I have been a Christian for years and I am a pastor. I often prayed for the self-control that is one of the fruits of the Spirit. I longed to help other people with their problems but in my heart I always wondered if they believed the things I said because it was obvious that I had this major failure in my own life. I often thought of Paul's chilling words in I Corinthians 9:27; "...I keep under my body and bring it into subjection: lest that by any means, when I have preached to others, I myself should be a castaway."

I felt like my overweight was mocking my God like the Philistine giant mocked David’s God. Everywhere I went I was painfully conscious of the obvious evidence of my lack of self-control.

A year ago I was over one hundred pounds over my ideal weight. I tried so many things to lose weight and none of them worked. I tried different diets and diet supplements. I set goals, prayed, and even wrote up a plan with ten simple rules, like the Ten Commandments for reaching my ideal weight. Those rules were good and they would have worked, but I could not discipline myself to keep them. They added to my frustration and feelings of failure whenever I saw them.

Though they didn’t show it my family must have been frustrated with hearing me grieve over my weight problem and flounder for years without victory. Over and over again I would get up early in the morning and run or ride my bike but the exercise didn’t give me the self-control I needed.

I would often eat little or nothing until late in the day. Then I would stand by the refrigerator and quickly eat what amounted to a meal when I got home. Later I would eat a large supper and then in the evening eat the equivalent of another meal before I went to bed. Almost every day I ate so much that my heart would pound and I would feel uncomfortably full.

I read many books on nutrition, diet and exercise and I knew the kinds of foods and the amounts that I needed to eat, but I could not discipline myself to do what I knew was right. My wife would buy good whole grains, fruit, vegetables and meat low in fat, and I would let them spoil while I chose to eat high-fat foods instead. I loved to eat large amounts of high-fat beef and fried-chicken, pizza, cakes, pies, cookies, and chips. My habits were bad and I was in sinful bondage to them. I rarely allowed myself to carefully and honestly evaluate how much I really ate.

A few years ago I sensed the Lord directing me to go on a forty-day fast. I had only water and mints and ate no solid food. I wanted to walk with the Lord and have the power of God on my life. I wanted to have victory over my appetite. During the course of the fast I lost weight, but as soon as I went back to my old habits the weight quickly returned. During that time it became obvious to me that my gluttony was a form of idolatry. I was seeking delight and soul-satisfaction in food that only the Lord could give.

Last April (2000) I reached an all-time high. We purchased a bathroom scale for my mother-in-law as a birthday gift. At the party that night we all stood around and weighed ourselves and joked about our weight. When I weighed, the scale read "error." After I tried a few more times it finally read 300 pounds! I laughed outwardly but inwardly I was defeated and discouraged.

Through the years I poured my heart out to the Lord and recorded my requests in my journals. I found this interesting prayer written in my journal on the 12th of April. "I need help to bring my eating habits under control. I weigh nearly 300 pounds and I need to lose one hundred pounds. Help me to discipline myself and gain victory in this area, Lord, so I will live long enough to train my children to walk with you." On April 24, 2000 I wrote this prayer: "I need to train myself to eat smaller portions and include healthier foods. I don't want to be glutton, I want to weigh what I should and look and feel trim and fit and I want to extend my life, Lord willing, because I have an important work to do here on earth, especially with the children."

I visited my doctor who is a member of our church and serves on our Deaconate. He warned me that I had dangerously high cholesterol and high blood pressure. My overall cholesterol count on June 6, 2000 was 268. My LDL cholesterol was 170.8. He advised me to lose weight. I was humiliated and frustrated. I preached to this man of the power of God and could not demonstrate it in my own life.

I remembered hearing a seminary professor say that statistically speaking it is more common for a person to recover from deep moral confusion and habitual sexual sin than that an obese person will achieve and maintain their ideal weight. I feared that I would never have the self-control I longed for.

The Truth that Brought Freedom

Early one morning in June all these things came together in my mind. I experienced a deep sense of brokenness and humility. The Lord brought to my mind a teaching that Mr. Gothard had given at an All-Day Ministers Seminar a couple years ago. The teaching was that the Lord has given us impossible commands and that the Christian life is impossible. He taught that God designed it this way so we would rely on him. He went on to give the teaching of Scripture on crying out to God. I had the notes in my file but until that morning I had not cried out to God for help. When I thought on that it was as if the lights went on in my spirit. I realized how impossible my problem was and that if I was ever going to defeat this enemy of my soul that was mocking my God I would have to cry out to the Lord to do for me what I could not do for myself.

That morning I cried out to the Lord. I firmly believe I experienced what I like to call a "forward thrust" in personal sanctification that morning early in June as an answer to prayer. I have had this experience before in a couple other major areas of my life. After struggling for years and working to make progress and having limited success and frequent failure there came a time of profound forward progress that I could not take credit for myself. God granted a level of freedom I did not have before.

My grandfather was a smoker. At one point in his life he prayed and the Lord took the desire to smoke away altogether. He threw his cigarettes away and never picked them up again. He believed it was a miracle and an answer to prayer. There were other areas of Christian obedience where I'm sure my grandpa struggled until he died. But in an instant God gave him freedom from smoking.

I think that is what happened to me when I cried out to God early that morning in June. I had looked at myself in the mirror and I was so discouraged and defeated. I fervently cried out to God that he would give me discipline that I did not possess and a profound change came from that day. It has continued to this day.

In six months I lost over 100 pounds and by God’s grace I have maintained a new level of self-control for a year. The Lord allowed me this victory without buying anything or joining any program. He delivered me without any fad diets, gimmicks, drugs, herbs or shakes. I lost the weight without a weight loss group and without spending any money on books, tapes, videos or programs. Most of the time I was unable to exercise because of a knee injury. Even though exercise is important, I lost 100 pounds without significant exercise.

Today I am 6'3" tall and weigh 195 pounds. I have lost over 100 pounds and I feel better than ever. I have lost fourteen inches in my waist. I have lost nine inches in my chest. I have lost over four inches in my neck! Yesterday my doctor dropped by the study with the report that my new cholesterol readings are in the optimal range. My overall number went from 268 to 163 and my LDL went from 170.8 to 81.6. By God’s grace I never had to take medication for it. I do not have high blood pressure. Now the Doctor regularly encourages his patients to read what the Lord did for me.

I love to sing and have much greater wind than I have had in years. I am able to run three or four minutes a mile faster than before without additional training just because of the loss of 100 pounds.

People are shocked who haven't seen me for a few months. They say I look like a completely different person. It is a wonderful feeling to get up in the morning and look in the mirror without feeling discouragement and frustration. I praise Him every day for what He has done in my life.

After the Lord gave me the additional self-control I was able to form healthy eating habits. I began to eat fruit, raw vegetables and salad. I chose to eat only the things available to me that I knew did not have any significant amount of fat. I have eaten only the smallest portions of high-fat meat and even then I took precautions to eat as little of the fat as possible. I avoid fat as if it will kill me, because I believe it can.

The Lord gave me unusual self-control. I went from June to November without a single cookie or piece of pie or cake. I have not had a French fry in a year. I allowed myself certain "treats" as a way of rewarding myself for my personal discipline. I often enjoyed a single carefully measured portion of frozen yogurt, which is not particularly low calorie, but has little or no fat. Once I reached my ideal weight I have allowed myself a reasonable portion of dessert nearly every day.

Since early June last year I have not had a single episode of gluttony. Every meal I eat small, reasonable portions of food that I know to be good for me. If the family is eating a casserole, goulash or spaghetti, I allow myself to eat one cup of it with a salad, fruit, whole wheat bread, a vegetable and drink. I eat low-fat meats in small measured portions. I do not refill my plate.

While I was losing weight the family held me accountable for what I ate every day. At the evening meal I would tell them all that I ate through the day. My wife and children prayed for me. My wife and daughters planned meals that I could eat and helped make healthy foods, fruit and whole-wheat bread available for me. My daughters made good granola for my breakfast. Each member of the family helped me in their own way consistent with their spiritual gift.

Looking back it is clear to me that it was the power of the Holy Spirit that set me free and He used the truth to do it. John 8:32 promises; "and ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free." I believe the truth set me free from bondage to gluttony. John 17:17 says; "Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth." I believe the truth has sanctified me in this area.

Reflecting on what the Lord has done in my life over the last year four areas of truth stand out to me. When the seeds of truth were planted in my spirit the fruit of holiness began to form in my life.

God Granted Me Deliverance from Gluttony:

1. When I realized that victory was humanly impossible. "without me ye can do nothing…" (John 15:5).

2. When I acknowledged that my gluttony was idolatry. I saw that I was trying to find soul satisfaction in food that only God can give. I began to acknowledge that my delight was in food rather in the One who gave me the food. I began to delight myself in the Lord. (Psalm 37:4)

3. When I began to "walk in the light." In other words I was honest about my sin. Proverbs 28:13 says; "He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy." Walking in the light is being honest and confessing the hold food has on my soul. Walking in the light is being honest about how often and how much food I am eating. Walking in the light is submitting to open accountability to others for what I am eating every meal, every day.

4. When I cried out to God. Psalm 34 has become very precious to me in the last year. "I sought the Lord and he heard me and delivered me from all my fears. This poor man cried, and the Lord heard him, and saved him out of all his troubles. The eyes of the Lord are upon the righteous and his ears are open to their cry. The righteous cry and the Lord heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles. The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous; but the Lord delivereth him out of them all." (Psalm 34: 4,6, 15, 17-19) Though the other truths and factors were working in my heart and contributed to my deliverance from sin, the break-through did not come until I cried out desperately and fervently to God.

I'm so glad I finally cried out to the Lord. He is still working in me to give me the grace to walk in daily obedience to him. I could never do it without Him. My confidence and hope is not in me, but in the Lord Jesus who saved me and is delivering me from bondage to sin. I am claiming the sweet promise of Philippians 1:6; "Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ."

All glory to the Lord Jesus for what He has done! When I called on the Lord in the day of trouble, He delivered me and I am giving Him glory. (Psalm 50:15) By his grace and help I want to seek Him with my whole heart so I will never wander from His commandments. (Psalm 119:10)

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Quotes

“When I say, 'I can't,' it means 'I won't.'” – Oswald Chambers

"To have failed once is not so much a pity as is not to try again." - John Wanamaker

"When God is about to do something great, He starts with a difficulty. When He is about to do something truly magnificent, He starts with an impossibility." - Armin Gesswein

"Right is right, even if everyone is against it; and wrong is wrong, even if everyone is for it." - William Penn


 

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