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Generosity |
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The Character Journal is a
monthly e-zine designed to help parents teach Biblical character qualities to their
children. Each month a different character quality will be presented with suggestions for
Bible lessons and projects. The length of time you spend teaching these principles to your
children each day is not nearly as important as your sincerity and consistency. Begin each
time with a relevant hymn or chorus. Then take a verse, theme or story from the
suggestions below as the basis for your daily "Bible Time" with your family.
Give relevant application of the lesson to your family; and don't forget to ask your
children the questions: Who? What? Where? Why? When? and How? Get each member of the
family involved by assigning different verses to be read. Finally, conclude your time with
family prayer.
Related
Hymns and Choruses
- Give of Your Best to The Master (Howard B. Grose, 1851-1939)
- Give Me Thy Heart (Eliza E. Hewitt, 1851-1920)
- Have I Done My Best for Jesus? (Ensign Edwin Young, 1895-)
- I Gave My Life for Thee (Frances R. Havergal, 1836-1879)
- Is Your All on The Altar? (Eisha A. Hoffman, 1839-1929)
- Trust, Try, and Prove Me (Lida S. Leech, 1873-1962)
- All for Jesus (Mary D. James, 19th century)
- I Surrender All (Judson W. Van de Venter, 1855-1939)
Bible
Verses Related to Generosity
Spend an evening (or several) looking at just one of these verses at a time. Don't forget to ask your children the questions: Who? What? Where? Why? When? and
How? Discuss with your family what each verse or story teaches about the character
quality; and give vital application of how this quality can be applied to your family.
Choose several verses to memorise together as a family.
- Exodus 25:2 Speak unto the children of Israel, that they bring me an offering: of every
man that giveth it willingly with his heart ye shall take my offering. {bring me: Heb.
take for me} {offering: or, heave offering}
- Exodus 35:5 Take ye from among you an offering unto the LORD: whosoever is of a willing
heart, let him bring it, an offering of the LORD; gold, and silver, and brass,
- Deuteronomy 15:7 If there be among you a poor man of one of thy brethren within any of
thy gates in thy land which the LORD thy God giveth thee, thou shalt not harden thine
heart, nor shut thine hand from thy poor brother:
- Deuteronomy 15:8 But thou shalt open thine hand wide unto him, and shalt surely lend him
sufficient for his need, in that which he wanteth.
- Deuteronomy 15:9 Beware that there be not a thought in thy wicked heart, saying, The
seventh year, the year of release, is at hand; and thine eye be evil against thy poor
brother, and thou givest him nought; and he cry unto the LORD against thee, and it be sin
unto thee. {thought: Heb. word} {wicked: Heb. Belial}
- Deuteronomy 15:10 Thou shalt surely give him, and thine heart shall not be grieved when
thou givest unto him: because that for this thing the LORD thy God shall bless thee in all
thy works, and in all that thou puttest thine hand unto.
- Deuteronomy 15:11 For the poor shall never cease out of the land: therefore I command
thee, saying, Thou shalt open thine hand wide unto thy brother, to thy poor, and to thy
needy, in thy land.
- Deuteronomy 15:14 Thou shalt furnish him liberally out of thy flock, and out of thy
floor, and out of thy winepress: of that wherewith the LORD thy God hath blessed thee thou
shalt give unto him.
- 1 Chronicles 29:17 I know also, my God, that thou triest the heart, and hast pleasure in
uprightness. As for me, in the uprightness of mine heart I have willingly offered all
these things: and now have I seen with joy thy people, which are present here, to offer
willingly unto thee. {present: Heb. found}
- Psalms 112:5 A good man sheweth favour, and lendeth: he will guide his affairs with
discretion. {discretion: Heb. judgment}
- Proverbs 3:9 Honour the LORD with thy substance, and with the firstfruits of all thine
increase:
- Proverbs 3:10 So shall thy barns be filled with plenty, and thy presses shall burst out
with new wine.
- Proverbs 11:25 The liberal soul shall be made fat: and he that watereth shall be watered
also himself. {liberal...: Heb. soul of blessing}
- Proverbs 19:17 He that hath pity upon the poor lendeth unto the LORD; and that which he
hath given will he pay him again. {that which...: or, his deed}
- Proverbs 22:9 He that hath a bountiful eye shall be blessed; for he giveth of his bread
to the poor. {He that...: Heb. Good of eye}
- Proverbs 23:6 Eat thou not the bread of him that hath an
evil eye, neither desire thou his dainty meats:
- Proverbs 23:7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and
drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.
- Proverbs 23:8 The morsel which thou hast eaten shalt thou vomit
up, and lose thy sweet words.
- Ecclesiastes 11:1 Cast thy bread upon the waters: for thou shalt
find it after many days. {upon...: Heb. upon the face of the waters}
- Isaiah 32:5 The vile person shall be no more called liberal, nor
the churl said to be bountiful.
- Isaiah 32:8 But the liberal deviseth liberal things; and by
liberal things shall he stand. {stand: or, be established}
- Matthew 10:42 And whosoever shall give to drink unto one of these
little ones a cup of cold [water] only in the name of a disciple, verily I say unto you,
he shall in no wise lose his reward.
- Luke 6:38 Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure,
pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For
with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.
- Acts 20:35 I have shewed you all things, how that so labouring ye
ought to support the weak, and to remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he said, It is
more blessed to give than to receive.
- Romans 12:8 Or he that exhorteth, on exhortation: he that giveth,
let him do it with simplicity; he that ruleth, with diligence; he that sheweth mercy, with
cheerfulness. {giveth: or, imparteth} {with simplicity: or, liberally}
- 2 Corinthians 8:12 For if there be first a willing mind, it is
accepted according to that a man hath, and not according to that he hath not.
- 2 Corinthians 8:14 But by an equality, [that] now at this time
your abundance [may be a supply] for their want, that their abundance also may be [a
supply] for your want: that there may be equality:
- 2 Corinthians 8:15 As it is written, He that [had gathered] much
had nothing over; and he that [had gathered] little had no lack.
- 2 Corinthians 9:6 But this [I say], He which soweth sparingly
shall reap also sparingly; and he which soweth bountifully shall reap also bountifully.
- 2 Corinthians 9:7 Every man according as he purposeth in his
heart, [so let him give]; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful
giver.
- Philippians 4:17 Not because I desire a gift: but I desire fruit
that may abound to your account.
- Philippians 4:18 But I have all, and abound: I am full, having
received of Epaphroditus the things [which were sent] from you, an odour of a sweet smell,
a sacrifice acceptable, wellpleasing to God. {I have all: or, I have received all}
- 1 Timothy 6:18 That they do good, that they be rich in good works,
ready to distribute, willing to communicate; {willing...: or, sociable}
- James 5:9 Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest ye be
condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door. {Grudge not: or, Groan, or, Grieve
not}
- 1 Peter 4:9 Use hospitality one to another without grudging.
Bible Stories
- Jesus feeds the 5000 (the boy who shared his lunch) -
Mattew14:14-21; Mark 6: 34-44; Luke 9:10-17 and John 6:1-11
- Elijah and the Widow at Zarephath - I Kings 17:7-16 (Key verses:
13 &15)
- Elijah and the Shunammite couple - II Kings 4:8-10 (Key verse 10)
- Dorcas (Tabitha) - Acts 9:36-42 (Key Verse: 36)
Character
Definitions
- Realising that all I have belongs to God and
using it for His purposes (IBLP)
- Giving a gift that is cherished by the receiver and the giver
(IBLP)
- Withholding a gift that will hurt the one who receives it (IBLP)
- Giving the right amount at the right time (IBLP)
- Giving a gift that requires personal sacrifice (IBLP)
generos'ity or gen'erousness noun liberality of nature,
the quality of being free and unstinting with ones possessions, money, time;
nobleness of nature, magnanimity; a generous act; nobility of birth (archaic).
»Latin generosus of noble birth, from genus birth (Chambers Dictionary)
How to Demonstrate Generosity
to God
Give God the first part (10%) of your income
Give God the first part of your day
Dedicate yourself totally and unconditionally to the Lord
to Parents
Be generous with praise for your parents
Give meaningful gifts on special occasions that
demonstrate your appreciation for your parents
Send them an unexpected gift such as flowers or a card
for no reason other than to say "I love you and am grateful for you"
to your Employers
Be willing to work overtime if necessary
Show initiative and go the "extra-mile"
to your Church Leaders
Show hospitality to other church members and
visitors
Be willing to give sacrificially to mission projects and
other church needs
Tell your church leaders that you are willing to serve in
any way that you can
Potpourri
LIBERALITY, examples of
(Select Reading, De 26 Mal 1:6-14 3:4-12 Mt 6:1-4)
Gifts of Israel for the Tabernacle
# Ex 35:22
Over-plus of Gifts
# Ex 36:5
Offerings at the Dedication
# Nu 7:3
David's Gifts for the Temple
# 1Ch 29:3,4
Gifts for the Repairing of God's House
# 2Ch 24:10
Offerings for the Rebuilding of the Temple
# Ezr 1:6 2:69 8:25 Ne 7:70 Lu 19:8
The Poor Widow's Offering
# Lu 21:1-4
Liberality in the Early Church
# Ac 4:34,35 11:29 2Co 8:2 Php 4:16
The "I Wills" of Generosity
- I will share what I have with others
- I will recycle
- I will not expect anything in return for my generosity
- I will give of my time and talents
- I will praise the good I see in others
Share a personal illustration from your own life of when you were
generous or stingy. Be sure to emphasise that there were benefits to being generous and
consequences to being stingy.
-Character First! Education Series 1
LIBERALITY AS A CROWNING QUALITY OF WOMANHOOD
# Ex 35:25 Pr 31:20 Lu 8:2,3 21:2-4 Joh 12:3 Ac 9:39
DIVINE PROMISES TO THE GENEROUS
# Ps 41:1 Pr 3:9,10 11:25 22:9 28:27 Ec 11:1 Isa 58:10
# Lu 6:38 14:14 2Co 9:7
Returned With Interest
When the British preacher C. H. Spurgeon went to
Bristol for the purpose of ministering there, he hoped to collect 300 pounds to support
his work with homeless children in London. At the end of the week of meetings, many people
had been blessed, and his financial goal had been reached. That night as he bowed in
prayer, Spurgeon seemed to hear a voice saying, "Give that money to George
Mueller." "Oh no, Lord," answered the minister, "I need it for my own
dear orphans." Yet he couldn't shake the idea that God wanted him to part with it.
Only when he said, "Yes, Lord, I will," could he find rest. Early the next
morning he made his way to Mueller's orphanage and found that great man of prayer on his
knees. The famous preacher placed his hand on his shoulder and said, "George, God has
told me to give you this 300 pounds I've collected." "My dear brother,"
said Mueller, "I've just been asking Him for exactly that amount." The two
servants of the Lord then wept and rejoiced together. When Spurgeon returned to London, he
found a letter on his desk containing 300 guineas. "There," he cried with joy,
"the Lord has returned my 300 pounds with 300 shillings interest!"
- Our Daily Bread
Give of Your Best
A missionary told of a woman in India who was holding a
weak, whining infant in her arms, while at her side stood a beautiful, healthy child. The
man of God saw her walk to the banks of the Ganges River and throw the robust youngster to
the crocodiles as an offering, and then turn toward home again still clutching the sickly
child to her bosom. Tears were running down her cheeks when he stopped to question her
concerning her shocking actions. She proudly replied in defence of her conduct, "O
sir, we always give our gods the best!"
- Our Daily Bread
Shrink My Income?
A man knelt with his pastor and committed
himself to God to give a certain percent of his income as long as he lived. From his first
week's pay he gave $1 to the Lord. Soon his weekly offering had increased to $10. As time
went on, he continued to prosper. Before long he was giving $100 a week, then $200, and in
time, $500 a week. Finally he called the pastor. "Please come and see me," he
said. "It's urgent!" When the minister arrived, the host said, "You
remember that promise I made to God years ago? How can I get released? When I made the
promise, all I had to give was a dollar, but now it's $500. I can't afford to give away
money like that." The wise old pastor looked at his friend and said, "I'm afraid
you cannot get a release from the promise, but there is something we can do. We can kneel
down and ask God to shrink your income so that you can afford to give a dollar
again."
- Our Daily Bread
A Wise Investment
Shortly before the turn of the century, two young
students were working their way through Stanford University. At one point their money was
almost gone, so they decided to engage the great pianist Paderewski for a concert and use
the profits for board and tuition. Paderewski's manager asked for a guarantee of $2,000.
The students worked hard to promote the concert, but they came up $400 short. After the
performance, they went to the musician, gave him all the money they had raised, and
promised to pay the $400 as soon as they could. It appeared that their college days were
over. "No, boys, that won't do," said the pianist. "Take out of this $1600
all your expenses, and keep for each of you 10 percent of the balance for your work. Let
me have the rest."
Years passed. Paderewski became premier of Poland
following World War I. Thousands of his countrymen were starving. Only one man could
help-the head of the U.S. Food and Relief Bureau. Paderewski's appeal to him brought
thousands of tons of food. Later he met the American statesman to thank him. "That's
all right," replied Herbert Hoover. "Besides, you don't remember, but you helped
me once when I was a student in college."
- Our Daily Bread
"Let Her Be
Generous"
A small boy was given two apples and told to divide them
with his sister, and in doing so to be generous in giving her the larger one. He said
finally, "Look, Ma, you give her the apples and ask her to be generous."
-Encyclopaedia of 7,700 Illustrations
Champion Blood Donor
Joe Kerkofsky was America's blood donor champion. The
American Association of Blood Banks honoured the 62-year-old retired security guard at a
special presentation in Chicago. Mr. Kerkofsky lost an arm in an accident when he was six.
He was thence rejected for military service in World War II. Since then he donated nearly
31 gallons of blood. The human body contains 10 or 12 pints of blood. Joe has donated more
than 20 times that amount. "Giving blood makes you feel like contributing life
itself," he says. "There's no more precious a gift than life. Money can't buy
the joy of giving blood to help someone who needs it."
-Encyclopaedia of 7,700 Illustrations
- Quotes
"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain
what he cannot loose." - Jim Elliot
Six Probing Questions
- Do you promptly give God the firstfruits of all your
increase?
- Are your gifts prompted by what you cannot use anymore or
by what you see a person needs?
- Do your gifts make the one receiving them feel obligated to
you?
- Do you give a gift to those you want to help you in the
future?
- Have you ever given a large sum of money to God that you
could have used for a personal want?
- How many unexpected gifts have you given in the last year?
-Character Clues Game, IBLP
Projects
- As a family, discuss and pray whom the Lord might direct
you to give food baskets or special gifts to this coming Christmas. Discuss the benefits
of giving anonymously.
- Consider supporting a missionary family, and discuss
creative ways that you as a family might be able to make more money available to give to
help meet the needs of others.
Sources used for compiling this mailing:
- The Online Bible
- Character First! Education Series 1 - The
Character First! Education curriculum is developed by the Character Training Institute, a
non-profit organization based in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. If you live in the USA, you may
request information directly by calling 405-815-0001, writing 520 W. Main St., Oklahoma
City, OK 73102, or visiting www.characterfirst.com.
- Encyclopaedia of 7700 Illustrations, Assurance Publishers,
Rockville, Maryland
- Windows on The Word - Illustrations from Our Daily Bread